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I expressed two fears to a mutual friend yesterday and it was the best thing I oculd have done. I was worried she has had enough having tried two times to make things work. He said rubbish at the end of the day were that the case she would have changed her mobile number. (Which she did all the time after arguments with guys when we were apart). My other fear was that she wanted to get back with her ex who she was with when we divorced. he said again rubbish. When she was all over him when they were together it was different from me in that she wanted him because she wanted someone, anyone because she wanted love. She never married him, she never got engaged to him, she did not to anyone she dated. Within six weeks she was back with me we were married. That bond, so our friend said, cannot be broken so easily. She still has her mobile turned on and with the same number. That shows, although she is not in contact with me she needs my contact. If she did not it would have been changed. Do you think I am being overly optimistic. Or logical for once.
Cheers All
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| I bloody well love her. She is my soulmate. I know that, like her anxiety her drinking will pass and I will NEVER give up on her as long as she needs me. I KNow she needs a year to sort herself out, people have told me that but the thing is She thinks it is unfair to push me away for that long. To keep me on the sidelines for that long. I WILL WAIT for that long. it is not a problem. I love her so very much I will never give up on that. She is pushing me away out of kindness because she is sick of her work at sobriety having a negative effect on us.!!Not because she hates me. God Bless Al Anon
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I had two lovely phonecalls from different people yesterday. One was from Sarahs father in UK and one was from my mother. Both said I came here for a reason and that reason is not over yet. They both said they were sure she did not truly want me to leave Australia as she could have done more so. they both said there is no way she would have kept the same mobile number if she did not want to hear from me. That is comforting. I love her. What do you guys think
Chris
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| Mate, I have been offline for a few days on a work trip so catching up. The good news is her parents especially think you need to be there for her. I don't know if she has been in contact with them to trigger the call. Follow your heart, that is all you can do. If you need to write her a letter expressing your feelings and telling her you are there waiting for her when she needs you. Maybe she can't handle seeing/talking to you because she knows she has let you and your (joint) love down. But a more impersonal communication might get through. Just an idea?
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