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| told you it was along story, any way, by now i`m out of work and who lobs again at the house, same guy delivering something else for her , they sit out side , i join them, it`s very apparent to me there is an attraction there, but according to my wife i`m sick in the haed because nothing is going on and i shouln`t think there was, very shortly after this my wife tells me she`s going to a send off for one of the girls in the ware house ( i should add here , my wife works in the office and this joker that comes to my house works in the ware house) at a loacal pub, straight from work, at the last minute she asks me to come, when i get there i find my missus sitting well away from the main body of workers she`s sitting with another woman from the ware house, and her husband, after a while the other woman suggests we all join the others, we do, at this pont i relise that to woman being farellled is not present ( the function was hours old when i got there) so after a beer, the other woman and her husband leave, it`s stating to get dark wev`e got a 15 yr old at home on his own, i suggest to my wife the same, no way, she`ll be back comes the reply, 3 more beers i suggest ew go same story, she``ll be back, ...i had to leave my missus there it seemed something was keeping her there , she really didn`t want to go home with me, any way when she got home about 3/4/hour afetr me i thanked her for the invitation, she then lays on me that the only reason she wanted me there was to keep the husband of the first woman company, (strange) ?, not long after this we take our young bloke on the trip the the gold coast, every thing is fine, we make love (when he`s asleep) hold hands, every thing`s sweet, we come back 2 days latter is valinetines day, were going out for dinner, she dresses like she`s going to franlins, i have a sot at her , thats it it all over she says, cout paperwork arives a week latter, when i ask what about the way we were on holidays , the aswer is I WAS TRYING TO WORK OUR MARRAGE OUT , (did she have this planned don`t be stupid i`m told, here`s to me the clintcher, a bout a month latter i bump into a friend who works in the warehouse, this friend a islander lady, is deeply religous, i ask her if she thought my wife was up to something, her words, ` i about eighty percent shore, she has morning tea and lunch with a fellow from the ware house, they don`t sit with any one else, they go into a seperate room by themsleves ........ your opinion so far, is it me?
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Joe,
Firstly you might want to repost this in the Men's peer support section as it will get viewed by the regular posters.
RE: your wife, it is hard to say with certainty from what you have written if she is definitely cheating. She could be being unfaithful but then she might just be flirting and enjoying the attention of another etc.
Presumably you are looking to save your marriage - is it to late to get some mutual counseling?
Cheers,
Chris.
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| Hi there, I dont believe you are insane! Hang in there! The shame of it is I am told that women make their minds up months before guys no anythin. By the time you are told they have already thought about leaving you, got interested in someone else and also moved far away from you. Then so it doesn't look to suspicous they keep you around, just that bit longer so they can let everyone know that 'the marriage isn't working out' By the time you (the husband) is informed the marriage is over the wife has already gone and found someone else. It sucks! I know been there mate! But hang in there and just remember it is not in your mind! Normally what you first suspect is true! It's hard but stay calm and healthy and think of your kid and you! Move forward. good luck!
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| no its not you.. she was trying to the best of both worlds. re queensland maybe she was waiting until things improved with the other party from work.. re the court papers.. i think she had already looked into it.... long before.. hope things work out for you and your son.
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