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Hi all,
I wonder if you can help me,
I am rebuilding my relationship with my wife of 23 years. I am looking for the magic that brought us together originally, as I lost my way over the last 12 months.
can any of you provide any tips or advice on the best way to do this?
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You could always start with the trite and tried bunch of flowers as a surprise .... A big turn on for women is a man who will help out with the housework (and do it properly ie.. the way she likes it.. lol). Are you financial enough to go on dates, take her to the movies and dinner, for a drive to a cafe for lunch on the beach perhaps.... ask her what her dreams are, what would she like to be doing, is there anything you can do to help make those come true.....
Hope that a helpful start for you. Don't under estimate taking time out for her (and hopefully she will do the same for you)
Good luck
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| thank you for the advice, my wife has made it clear that she does not want me to do that - the issue I have is honesty and trust, and even though I have been been very honest, over the last 8 months, she does not trust me. This has been the hardest thing for me to except and am looking at ways to build that trust up again, knowing that it will take time. I am just wondering how much time is required.
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